12558618, RE: they didnt need to be straight up with you Posted by BlassFemur, Tue Aug-26-14 06:24 PM
>let your kids live the happy dream until 13 at least, then >talk with them about how they'll be perceived and why<
And this leads to "We can't make a move cause we'll make the kids sad that they can't get gifts". That is not a good strategy.
Plus turning around 13 years of brainwashing is gonna be a lot harder than being straight up from the jump.
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