and it bothers me when folks assert that they are.

Are some of us here misogynistic, almost certainly - that being said us AS A WHOLE?

I just don't see it.

Now of course, this is how things like misogyny, racism, etc operate - I'm not SUPPOSED to see it. The idea that a place I have spent a not insignificant portion of my life is a net negative in the world and I can't even comprehend it is fucked up.

That bothers me too.

:/