Some people, (men and women), choose great partners in terms of character and it still doesn't work out. Having a good character doesn't guarantee love, happily ever after, a family or even happiness.

No one knows why some people fall for other people. We can try to mechanically plug in all these techniques, skills, behaviors, love languages, etc. But most people just like who they like. Most relationships either work or they don't.

I see some of the oddest couples go the long haul, happily. I see some of the most beautiful couples barely last 2 years. No one knows the secret to romantic happiness.

We need to just have fun with life and just let the chips fall where they may. Some things are just out of our control.