>and confidence.
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>I mean.. I know self help is a big industry but gotdamn.

The self help industry reminds me a lot of church, especially some southern Baptist churches. The mistake, to me, revolves around falling in love/giving too much energy to the messenger until it gets to the point that the messenger is more important than the messages.

Also, YouTube and a lot of social media is a cesspool filled with sharks and shenanigans. Most folks would do better to focus on improving themselves instead of being the followers who help secure bags for these random folks. And then, maybe less folks would be obsessed with the falls from grace moments that continue to come up.