meaning, what do you want folks to do with the ashes?

dealing with this right now with my pops ashes.

theyve been with my mom but when i talked to her friday she pretty much was telling me theyre doing more damage then help having them with her.

i brought this up with my brothers over the weekend but they didnt really voice any potential actions to take.

were going to all be together in july so im thinking maybe that would be a good time to do a ceremony at a spot we could scatter them.