Keep with the party thing you said, if you throw a party that you say is welcoming to everyone, and I show up, tell you that I don't like you or any of your guests or your house and in fact don't think your party even has the right to exist, you're not "being intolerant" by telling me to leave. Telling me to leave doesn't mean your party is no longer inclusive or welcoming, because in this instance, I am being a complete piece of garbage who goes to random partys and hates on them.

"Why won't you let me tell you how evil I think you are, now you're the bigot" is terrible logic that you wouldn't accept from anyone else.