>my ex once said that it was selfish of me to want him all to
>myself...


It IS selfish of you to want him all to yourself.
We don't own each other. Generally speaking, the problem with a whole lot of women is that ya'll wanna be the ONLY source of a man's happiness and as a result, women get childishly jealous when a man gets happiness from something unrelated to *her.(c)Video games/erotica/kickin it wit da fellaz/indulging in his hobbies(that he had BEFORE meeting you...ie..musicianship and/or artistry). These are a mere few examples but I guarantee you, a gang of men in this thread can vouch for dis.

This is why we as men WANT our women to have hobbies/likes/interests/friendships independent of the relationship 'cus ya'll have this weird co-dependent tunnel-vision thing going on.

Ya'll need some Legos, Trin.