we'd remain a happy couple forever, but that just wasn't in the cards for us and it would have been torture on us both to make this work. Though I'm not happy with some choices she's been making lately, I know she's in a much better place than she was in prior to coming out to me. She was hurting and I was scared at where she was heading. At least I know now she's on the right path to self-acceptance. As much as this sucks for me, I know I'll be okay in the long term.