of the sexual misconduct currently at issue. And it happens bc of the way we're socialized and bc there's so much support out there for this misconduct. It is our problem bc we're the ones out there acting badly. It's on us to fix ourselves. But first we have to see the problem. Living in denial and deflection won't help us solve our problem. I say 'our' bc we're men. You and I aren't out there engaged in the misconduct but we should be on watch for it bc our peers might be out there acting badly. We also don't want to offer any support for this misconduct, or at least I don't, via words or actions or silence or inaction.