awkwardness of someone arguing believe women when they say it was non-consensual and doubt women when they say it was consensual.


Of course, I understand why a woman might be in a position where feel compelled to say something consensual when it wasn't but this on its face really doesn't look like one of those cases.



>
>>I saw the tape and my first reaction is that I was watching
>>two people who were fcuking, not someone being harassed. I
>>wasn't certain that was the case, but her statement seems to
>>back up that she was okay with it.
>
>however, i think its important to acknowledge that sometimes
>we women feel pressured to say something was ok when it really
>wasn't because we don't want to get someone in trouble. i have
>no way to know if that's the case here, but i can't help but
>wonder, under the circumstances.
>
>>On the other hand, I think it is hard to look at those
>>pictures and conclude that she was clearly uncomfortable
>>without her telling you that is the case.
>
>that is true. but we weren't left with any reason to wonder;
>she stated it plainly
>
>and in reference to what I said above, her original instagram
>post made it like she was ok with Singleton's comment when she
>really wasn't...again, that need to make everything ok for
>others..
>
>d


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