I think you are taking the thigh grab literally when I think it's moreso about contact in general.

and I'm not saying I was violating when I hugged someone we were just on some incense, peace and love steez. So when we went to different college radio stations to freestyle and interview and hugged the intern or host while I was faded was I violating?

I don't think so but what if one was like "yeah.. he stared at me too long and I don't like being hugged"

I like to think I was a good dude in all those interactions but what if a woman felt otherwise?

I'm just thinking out loud and saying it's not for ME to say how they received it..

I think that's what some of these stories are about.