kick game, lie, provide liquor/drugs, etc.

basically do whatever you can to 'persuade' a woman to have sex with you. instead of just relying on pure chemistry and her initial level of desire/comfort.

we view sex as something we have to induce a woman into relinquishing. and we unwillingly endure its absence.

instead of viewing it as something we may or may not mutually agree to share at some point.