>You can be a gentlemen in your unsolicited solicitation, but
>that doesn't change the fact that it's an unsolicited
>solicitation.


Every woman I've ever dated was at some point a stranger to me.

I met one of my exes at a book store. I asked her her name, we made small talk and exchanged numbers. Another at a club. same thing.


a cold call ain't always bad. As long as you act like you got some sense and show some respect, I think it's ok.