Thing is, it could have worked with another woman...this one just had no idea how to balance things out, and was almost selfish about it all. But she would really have weeks where she worked 65-70 hours, and then had other meetings and stuff to do when she wasn't working. And what I can say is that, it wasn't solely the fact that she was just "too busy" but that med school/fellowship was her ENTIRE life, to where that's the only damn thing she would talk about. 80% of the conversations we had were about what she had going on there...it was draining as hell.