but as far as dating multiple folks? yeah i can see being too busy for that but who says you have to go on mad dates w/ one person or mad dates w/ multiple folks?

i like to give it a few dates and then figure out if i want to see them more/make time for them. honestly i haven't had to deal w/ more than 2 dudes at once in the 'initial dating' stage at one time and i found that to be manageable