>All that is true. I've been threw the same obstacles.


No, you haven't, because you only deal with racism, not sexism.



>for me it's not about feeling the responsibility to to love
>black women. Its about dating someone I get along with Most of
>the time and being happy in a relationship.



I realize that... yet when you date white women BECAUSE you realize that Black
women are "more stressed out" from the crap they endure in this society, that is
willfully abandoning your own. It's a responsibility that you forfeit whether you own
it or not.



>I don't really see color when I'm
>in a relationship. SO Slavery histroy doesn't even matter to
>me. I deal with today and the future. Aint got time for the
>past.



Yet the "Black women are more stressed out" comment is steeped in the present
effects of both the present and the past. The past created this. We are all very
much a product of it.




>ALl people of every color have stress and issues. How you
>convery those to others is what matters to me.



And many of us have more stress and issues BECAUSE of what color we are.
You know this though.