her at all...that's one of the main reasons y'all are seeing it the way you do.

Basically...I was interested in her, a good month, meaning...yeah, I'm gonna take her out, hang out with her, talk to her, get to know her. Now, after 4-6 weeks, I realized that my feelings hadn't at all grown for her, and that I didn't feel like she was someone I wanted to be with...and that's when I made the first post. Basically realizing that the attraction hadn't grown at all.

And I'm realizing how many details I left out, the more that I think about it. She was basically claiming me a month in, when I was still interested but not anywhere near wanting to be official...that is part of what I feel made her "desperate"