But to answer your question, I'm going through it now.

I typed out all this shit, but was way too long. Super short version:

His grandma died recently. She raised him and I know he's hurting but he's being so...unkind and inconsiderate now. His actions are starting to affect me and while I love him very much, I don't know if I should stick around for this. I should state that I've seen this type of behavior in him before...it was the reason we broke up the first time.

I feel me breaking up with him will have me looking evil and unkind.
Don't want to contribute to more hurt.