And not like you wanted to engage in an honest discussion about it, which is why you got that response. I feel as though if you honestly wanted to know those things that's what you would stated to begin with. You were throwing stones and now you're hiding your hands, and I don't like it.


>think like this.
>
>you remember me typing: 'what's it to you?'
>
>you turned into a total spazz about that - as if asking 'why
>you care' is an automatic offense.
>
>are you finding static/negative feedback when you express
>wanting a man with money?
>
>people calling you a gold digger?
>
>fat men make you made when they express they want a sexy
>wife?
>
>I thought everybody just wants what they want.
>
>I'm missing something?

BUT to answer your question I think it's stems from men being cool with preferences and constantly defending their right to have these preferences( even the dumb ones) But when women have them, it's a problem.