or does that stuff fall away with age / is related to hanging in certain circles?

I cant imagine another human being saying "THEY ARE TRYING TO DESTROY MEEEEEEEEE!"

while another human being says "well, yes of course, I am trying to destroy them...they deserve it"

by enemy i mean someone who is the opposite of family in that you are actively trying to shower them with hate

or they are actively trying to come at you


or did this stuff really never happen and my brain is stuck on a mean girls dvd loop?