For me it's more cowardice or love however you want to look at it

I don't want to deal with the hassle of bringing Becky around family and friend s a, , dealing with race issues is hard enough, plus I have a stronger connection with sisters because of our shared history experience.

So if we lived in a truly post racial world I'd be more open to dating Becky but as long as the struggle continues I'm going to be with a sister