How can I say it...like if there was a kid who was 16, 6'4, great at ball, had a great family background, and a great personality...I figured that the 5'1, fat kid who got bullied and got no play would eventually end up having just as good of a life somehow. And in some cases, this happened, but when I hit my late 20's, I felt bad seeing people who had it rough in HS still have it rough.