>First, this isn't about 'women' and 'men', this is about a
>specific person who consistently discusses her consistently
>poor choices and self-defeating habits and decided that the
>problem wasn’t her, but men.


>That doesn’t mean the men are above reproach or somehow not
>responsible for their actions, but it does mean that the
>person laying out a blanket statement that ‘the problem is
>the mens’ has quite a bit more to do with ’the problem’
>than she’s willing to believe.
>
>This doesn’t even qualify as a gender warz post.
>

I agree with this in regards to Renebug making poor choices and not accepting responsibility for her part in the madness, but my post was a side bar comment about a narrative that ive seen pushed far too often and not just on here. When it's a woman being done dirty its " well it's her fault for picking the wrong man, oh well! " But when it's a man in that scenario its "it's not his fault, how was he supposed to know! Yall fuck over all the good men!" And it's really annoying.

It's time for men to step up and admit that they are pieces of shit sometimes and that its nobody's fault but their own.