"This man's decision is just about sad example of how jacked up our society is." You've extrapolated a person's personal decision about how to express their gender on their life's journey to what you call an example of society's ill. That is an irrational aversion to a trans person living their truth. You are the embodiment of homophobia. You have personally made many statements insinuating that my manhood is somehow diminished by my sexuality, though you've never remotely met me in person and therefore cannot make an informed decision about how masculine I am. That is irrational. It is your irrational aversion to homosexuality that drives this. Does that address it for you?