>if a family is out on the street or in a shelter (for extreme
>circumstance sake) i'm giving the man the side-eye.

there will always be exceptions
injuries
lay offs
woman has the better earning potential

flexibility in thinking when it comes to family and marriages i notice in my (extended) family

7 aunts and uncles all married 6 stayed married over 30 years

keeps them strong


they are a stubborn bunch of people
and also christian and black
but when it came down to it my dad made/sewed my jumpers
(no he didn't live with us though)
and the family didn't blink an eye then
and in general when it came down to it

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When you are born, you cry, and the world rejoices. Live so that when you die, you rejoice, and the world cries.
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You cannot hate people for their own good.