In the movie Colors Sean Penn and that Latino chick (damn, why can't I remember her name?) had a proper love scene.

Angelina Jolie and Antonio Bandaras has a pretty respectable love scene, or rather lust scene.

I haven't seen Monsters Ball yet, but I have heard nothing but rave reviews about it. Could you have misunderstood the love scene? I misunderstand a lot of stuff about those artsy kind of movies.

Peace,
K-I