That scene got me really thinking, whereas the rest of the stuff generally just had me shrugging. So there's that.

Another thing to consider is that this was his "Uncle Ben" moment, the turning point at which he decides to never take another life. If he learns from this... then the scene could grow on me.

But until that happens, I'm tentatively calling bullshit. You wanna switch up the origin story, the costume, the race, or even the power set of the character, I can rock with it. But when it gets to the point where you're actually changing the character's morality? In a superhero film, nonetheless? Then it's kinda like, what's the damn point?