I don't get this...

Some people say "race" doesn't matter, date who you "connect" with, "race" as we know doesn't have to be a factor in those connections.

I say those who date, marry, breed with people outside of their "race" don't value "race" as a criteria for those interactions.

Where's the contradiction? IF you saying race is not a factor then clearly race is not something you hold up as important in your choosing a mate. Why get upset when I say exactly what you yourself have said? Take responsibility for your choices & what they mean.

Or is it that you don't like the fact that some people draw a negative conclusion about you from your choices. Well that's life, now ain't it.