....you are too caught up in sending a message in everything you do.

What makes you think people are neccessarily paying attention?

and/or

What if their perception of said message/action is wrong? E.g. If someone thinks you're thoughts are less valid because you are with a White Woman, or that you must've rejected Black women to be with her....who has the problem you or them?

Why is it someone's responsibility to do things for the sake of "appearence & sending a message" and not for themselves?

Just because you are with a White person doesn't mean that you're neccessarily "rejecting" Black people..it just means that the white person was the first to connect with you....it's not more rejection of Black Women....then dating a particular Black woman means that you're neccessarily rejected other Black women.


In other words, you take yourself waaaaaaaay too seriously.


Peace,




M2