9424, RE: race does not equal culture Posted by bluesky, Tue Feb-05-02 03:20 AM
that sounds all fine and good.....but really shit isn't that easy. I have mixed feelings about it. On one hand it shouldn't matter, but it does. I personally wouldn't feel comfortable trying to explain the racist bullshit that goes on around me everyday if I chose to be with a man other that a black man. I don't think I would want to deal with the stress of being in an interracial relationship. I wouldn't be able to realate to them on a lot of levels. Lately I've experienced black women telling me they date white men because they don't want to deal with "black men's bullshit". To me (being a black women) that's absolutley absurd. I'll stick with what my DADDY LOOKS LIKE!
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