some of you obviously have. the sista didn't say that she was against interracial dating or marriage. she simply stated the obvious: that who you decide to fall in love with and take for your mate is YOUR CHOICE. and it is. some of you are seriously buggin' out. you're taking digs at the sista because you have your little taboo likings. you're trying to make it seem like love just came along and bonked you over the head, leaving you dazed, confused and drooling. since you're lovestruck, you can't help but take that white mate for your significant other. that's pure unmitigated bullshit. since when has that ever happened? how about never. the fact is, if you're in a multi-racial environment and hang around the opposite sex from a another race long enough, you're bound to find that you have things in common and might be possibly attracted to one another. but it's your CHOICE to act on that. and even if you fall in love, it's your CHOICE to take that woman as your soulmate. rocket science, this isn't. we all make choices everyday, and the people we date is one of them. the bottom line: if you're a black man and you want a black woman, you'll choose one. if you take a white woman as your bride, it's because you chose to do so. deal with it and move the hell on. and stop making sorry-ass excuses.