But what
>if, by shutting off options,
>you miss out on ...
love and having a
>family because of that?

if u don't make it so? the point is u CHOOSE to love and NOT to love, having said that, u can't "miss out on love." it's not a TV show, it's not out of your control. if u WANT love (with a black person) u will HAVE love (with a black person). love is not something u "miss out on."

that's ludicrous.

aren't most of u are saying that u can "find love" anywhere, with anyone? so how then, by constraining your selection to the bajillion black ppl on earth are u risking "missing out" on anything? ppl constrain their selection all the time, what Nah said about homeless ppl, toothless ppl, excessively overweight ppl, those are all egs of "shutting off options." and ppl still seem not to "miss out."

so i'm not feeling u on that, blonde-haired, blue-eyed devil.


Shemhotep
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"If u want a butterfly u got to B a
butterfly" - India.Arie, Butterfly

"the wages of sin is death"
Romans ch.6 v.23

"If the essence of 'love'... is giving
selflessly or sacrificing for others,
how can it then be equated with
something that you can 'fall into or
out of'?" - Ra Un Nefer Amen,
Afrocentric Guide to a Spiritual Union