you're implying that if someone black decides to date someone they like, and that other person is white, then they don't value black men. You seem to be saying, "if you don't date black, and exclusively black, then you don't really value black people".I don't think you get to make that judgment on everyone. If you decide for whatever reason decide that only a black man will do for you, well that's obviously your prerogative. To me though, it just sounds closed-minded, I mean maybe you find a black man that you love, in which case, great for everybody. But what if, by shutting off options, you miss out on some great people, even miss out on love and having a family because of that?

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