People like to pretend it isn't but it is.

Funny how nobody's soulmate ever is the homeless person in the gutter. On a routine & regular basis people CHOOSE to allow people in, choose to accept certain behaviors & types & while rejecting others. If you choose someone outside of your ethnicity & culture then you're making a clear annoucement of what what you're priorities are & what's important to you.


you = speaking generally, of course