simple as that. eventually a "sharp break" and a light bulb must light up that makes the person choose between DOING what will/has work, vs. sticking with what they've been doing. why not just have that happen at the beginning?

at soul veggie in the KOH (kingdom of ya) they don't PLY. they deliver naturally and do all the nursing and childcare as it has been done for centuries... they do it all themselves and have some healthy ass babies. one thing they don't have though...are excuses. they HAVE to do it when they enter... no if, ands, or buts about it. sometimes that's just the way it has to be.

it of course leaves out a lot of people who just won't DO those things...but you can't force people to change. they have to do that themselves...
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