8531, I went back... Posted by Nettrice, Tue Apr-30-02 11:57 PM
> If you had said >Black=Promiscuity then I can understand >the fuss. Your original >post was poverty...
...and race was the basis of your original post:
>I've noticed that people living in >lower class areas tend to >lose their virginity earlier than >mddle or upper class areas. > For example, most of >my Black and Arab friends >from "ghettos" lost their virginity >a long time ago
What about white or Asian people who are low-income or people of color who are middle/upper class?
>Also I >saw a statistic that Black >teenage girls in America were >more likely (I forgot the >exact number) than white girls >to have kids before marriage.
My roommate in college was white, from a middle class family and had to drop out (she was on welfare) to have a baby...out of wedlock. She's not the exception.
> Does anyone know why >people living in poorer areas >have more sex? It >doen't make sense to me.
First, you may have to figure out for yourself what expectations you have of people of color and what cues you communicate about race & class to others. How does this point of view affect your ideas about sex and income?
When responding to the original post I think I subconsciously understood that there was a bias and I addressed it from my experience living with both low income and middle/upper income folks. I ignored the bias and attempted to discuss deeper motivations behind promiscuity.
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