O.k., now how did your family/friends know how to do this(help you w/ your struggles)? Do you think that it is instinctive or something learned.

Why don't they dishonor you, or laugh at you, or talk about you behind your back? Do you think the first human beings did this and learned not to, or do you think that they just loved and showed compassion inately?

(Hold on, I'm getting somewhere with this...)