>does anyone have passages from the quran supporting your
>argument whateva it might be?
>cause that could clear up a lot of misunderstandings and
>show who really knows and who's out there thinking.

Response: As to those women on whose part ye fear disloyalty and ill-conduct, Admonish them(first), (Next)refuse to share their beds then beat them; but if they return to obediance, seek not against them means (of annoyance)Sura 4:34