Yall some self righteous people but that shit gonna come back and bite you in the ass. It seems you and cre8 are on some fairy tale spiritual wanna be Oprah Winfrey with a dash of Angela Davis bullshit. Monagamy is not the key to get the black community outta of its situation. If you 2 chicks are bitter cause some Locked Rasta ran some game on yall thats your problem. Get over it and move on this whole post sounds personal to me. Stop folowing men and find your own way in this world you both seem weak and need men to validate your existence thats what I get form your posting. So heres something for both of you how about black women who cant stand on there own but yet wanna talk about community upliftment. That sounds like both of you.
I will call it the Oprah syndrome. You both suffer from it stop looking in other peoples bed rooms and worry about your own.
Peace

P.S. stop exagerating everything someone says