Go back to previous topic
Forum nameOkay Activist Archives
Topic subjectoh my my my
Topic URLhttp://board.okayplayer.com/okp.php?az=show_topic&forum=22&topic_id=5967&mesg_id=5991
5991, oh my my my
Posted by lionelzeus, Fri Feb-21-03 06:53 PM

>>What the hell are you talking about here. So if someone
>>cheats or even has more than one woman he is treating the
>>other persons body like a dog? Thats a ridiculous statement
>>you need reall think about what you just typed.
>
>I'm basically speaking on a couple of guys I know and know
>of.
>Also when did sleeping around become good for ones health? I
>can validate the opposite based on STD's, AIDS/HIV, cancers,
>unplanned pregnancy/who'sthedaddy issues, as well as
>emotional problems that can effect ones mentalhealth due to
>promicuous lifestyles, but if you feel it is a healthy way
>to live then back it up and not with some stories about your
>friends who sleep with more than one woman.

Lets look at this from a scientific point of view.
How does one aquire HIV? Answer he must fuck someone who has already aquired the disease. Which means if I fuck to women who are not infected I have ZERO!!!! chance of getting the virus or any STD if they do not have it. Also fucking involves physical movement which means you getting a workout when to people fuck they usualy sweat. Which means you are working your cardiovascular system. So its similar to doing aerobics so if you fuck 2 times a day its like going to the gym twice a day.
Fucking is also good for the heart you could run a marathon on someone.



>>
>>How is being promiscuious unhealthy if one chooses to do so.
>>I have friends who are sexualy active with nore than one
>>woman
>>there in better shape than im in.
>
>What shape our the women in?

The women are in great shape sometimes they even join each other.
Its called threesomes you might wanna try it.


>Both are wrong and can bring about death.
>Either he can beat her to death or fuck up and give her AIDS
>or he can cause a Joey Buddafucco case to occur.

Hmmmm lets see a women or man can choose to kill someone for cheating. It would be stupid cause aint know one worth serving time in jail for. So I would say that the person is a dumb ass for going the Joey Buddafucco route there are other fish in the sea. I think beating a women FARRRRRRRR out ways cheating one a has an immediate physical impact on the victim.


>But you must be one of those
>>women who think if your man doesnt beat you he doesnt love
>>you huh?
>
>What makes you think I would think that a man beating you
>equates to him loving you?

I was being a smart mouth when I said that.
But you cant compare cheating or multiple sex partners to beating someones ass for having a bad day at work.


And sense you wanna assume I'm
>guessing you must be one of those guys that feel if a man
>aint beating the shit out of his lady and is cheating on her
>with whomever catchin whatever, then he's a better man and
>somehow providing more of a healthy relationship for that
>woman.

Hahaha uh no not at all if you recall I said beating a woman was wrong. Your the one trying to tie sex and beating someone in the
mould.

>If a man truly loves a woman he won't hit her or cheat on
>her.

Not true at all plus you not a man so you cant speak on any mans sex drive. Men are made to procreate the only reason we believe in Monogamy is because of the society we are in.

For a man to preach about uplifting folks, pretend to
>be monogamous and degrade women in his bed and verbally in
>public is not cool and I can't support some bullshit person
>like that.

I never said anything about someone pretending. There are plenty of people that dont pretend to be monogamous. But still bring alot of knowledge and wisdom to the table.


>>Point blank prove it you know what dont even waste your time
>>because you cant. When you start bringing on all the
>>spiritual
>>BS the conversation starts to get illogical.
>
>So you think spirituality is illogical? I can only guess
>that your faith/beliefs have nothing to do with the spirit,
>huh?

Nah it damn sure dont I only believe in what I see for the most part. Do I wonder if theres something beyond this place yeah I do. Can I prove either way that such a place exist nope and neither can you. So your spirits could all be in your head. Ask David Koresh if the spirits walked and talked to him I bet he wil say yeah.

>As for the scent piece, two sweaty bodies that intertwine on
>a regular are bound to mix scents, one scent(usually male)
>may even dominate the other.

Damn please dont say that in public you gonna look real crazy outside your social circle. You ever come to me with that nonsense I will destroy you.

>
>>As far as the so called elders go they was doing alot of
>>humping around in there day. You know how many old heads got
>>kids they dont even account for.
>
>Well that really aint no thing of the past considering we
>have just as many if not more new heads out here with
>shorties they don't even account for.

Never said it was a thing of the past. ust pinting out that the behavior is learned. So elders cant speak about our generation without addressing the issues of there own.

>>Again that is a crazy statment I dont take on any
>>charateristics of people I sleep with in my past.
>
>Folks around you may disagree. Don't know how many times a
>male or female friend would take on a new personality (not
>talking Sybil) when it came to the person they were dating.
>This aint to say they didn't have there own personality but
>they would take on a quality from the person they were
>dating and it was most heard in conversation such as saying
>something that I was more familiar with hearing their better
>half say or making certain gestures that was more common to
>their b.h. They didn't realize it either til someone said
>something.

Taking on charateristics of someone could come from just hanging around with someone. For instance if you lived up north then came down south to live chances are you may pick up a southern accent. That doesnt have anything to do with having sex with.
Being around someone for anyperiod of time you may pick up something from them sex or know sex.



>>Its a
>>>case of like attracts like.
>>>Now just think, if a person that claims to be uplifting a
>>>community is sleeping around with numerous people, their
>>>minds can't possibly be concerned with the positive because
>>>they are too busy uplifting asses and sooner or later it
>>>will defeat their community work.

The act of sex is neither positive or negative it just is what it is. Like I said what a man does behind closed doors is none of my businees. Now if your a gossip queen like Wendy Williams then more power to you. But I could care less who you sleep with.



>
>One has EVERYTHING to do with the other. You can't
>concentrate of being a leader when your spending time
>chasing ass, it won't work.

Hmmmm lets see Martin LUther King and John F Kennedy were effective leaders. They were both chasing ass big time they make Bill Clinton look like Steve Erkle.


>>
>>Please give another example besides Jesse Jackson. Jesse is
>>a fraud whether he is humping around or not. As far as what
>>his extra maritital affairs have cost its because people are
>>nosy.
>
>Name a leader who isn't a fraud? Jesses humpin just made him
>look more the fool and aided in wasting time that could have
>been used for more productive things.

OHHHHH now every leader is a fraud? So what your saying is if
Jesse hadnt been exposed having an affair he could have made more time to be an even bigger fraud. Thats pretty strange I thought you cared about the community.

>
>>Thats between him and his wife and last I checked she is
>>still with him so its no biggie in my book. Also this whole
>>thing about extra marital affairs is an american thing.
>
>How is it an American thing when damn near half of the world
>practices a religion(s) that supports and upholds monogamy?

LMAO wow what world you living in. This just shows how wet behind the ears you are. Lets see the biggest religion in the world is Islam. Most Islamic countries allow the man to have more than one woman. Go read a little more then come back to me ok sweetie.

>And as for Jesse's wife, just cause she with him don't mean
>things are a'ok between them. I wouldn't be surprised if she
>had him by the balls on some legal issues that makes him her
>slave, but allowed them to show good face in public.

Your speculating and its not good to do that when talking about someone elses relationship.


>>Other countries in the world laugh at our sexual
>>restrictions.
>So devoting your love and body to one person is a
>restriction? Does this apply to both men and women?

Obviously to some it is that why people cheat or have sex with more than one person.


>We are so caught up in being moral and high
>>and mighty we forget to be human.
>This aint got nothing to do with being high and mighty, it
>has to do with respecting and devoting yourself to the
>people you love and care about, which includes the person
>you intimately share your body with. And just how is a
>promiscous life a show of being human?

Well people are attracted to more than one person Id say thats pretty human.

>Besides George Bush stays
>>quoting the bible and all that BS and he still tryna kill
>>innocent kids in Iraq. But hey hes faithful to his wife so
>>he must be a stand up guy.
>
>Are you kidding, dudes a crackhead, do you really think he
>was being faithful while snorting up that shit? His punk ass
>just hasn't been exposed and considering his hold on the
>media, he will never be. However, unlike the dude I was
>talking about at the set, Bush has the sense not to
>publicize his bedroom behavior while dogging other for
>theirs.

Please read that statement it totaly contradicts your arguement.