>>The problem with most of these guys it that they are not
>>trying to overcome treating women a certain way, yet they
>>want to appear positive to the community. I mean how on
>>earth can you claim to be uplifting your people
>>(men/women/children) when you treat the very person you
>>share your body with like a dog?
>
>What the hell are you talking about here. So if someone
>cheats or even has more than one woman he is treating the
>other persons body like a dog? Thats a ridiculous statement
>you need reall think about what you just typed.

I'm basically speaking on a couple of guys I know and know of.
Also when did sleeping around become good for ones health? I can validate the opposite based on STD's, AIDS/HIV, cancers, unplanned pregnancy/who'sthedaddy issues, as well as emotional problems that can effect ones mentalhealth due to promicuous lifestyles, but if you feel it is a healthy way to live then back it up and not with some stories about your friends who sleep with more than one woman.
>
> No you may not be beating
>>on them and perhaps you haven't contracted an STD, AIDS/HIV
>>yet, but a promiscuious life style is not a healthy one
>>regardless of the contraceptive and the most hurtful
>>relationships between men and women are not due to physical
>>abuse but cheating and losing trust and respect for that
>>person.
>
>How is being promiscuious unhealthy if one chooses to do so.
>I have friends who are sexualy active with nore than one
>woman
>there in better shape than im in.

What shape our the women in?

Also your speculating on
>the abuse vs cheating aspect of relationships. Besides I
>think beating a woman because you had a bad day at work far
>out ways
>getting some ass on the low.

Both are wrong and can bring about death.
Either he can beat her to death or fuck up and give her AIDS or he can cause a Joey Buddafucco case to occur.

But you must be one of those
>women who think if your man doesnt beat you he doesnt love
>you huh?

What makes you think I would think that a man beating you equates to him loving you? And sense you wanna assume I'm guessing you must be one of those guys that feel if a man aint beating the shit out of his lady and is cheating on her with whomever catchin whatever, then he's a better man and somehow providing more of a healthy relationship for that woman.
If a man truly loves a woman he won't hit her or cheat on her. For a man to preach about uplifting folks, pretend to be monogamous and degrade women in his bed and verbally in public is not cool and I can't support some bullshit person like that.
>
>
>
>>
>>In talking with elders, I've been told that when people lay
>>with others they pick up of whatever spirit & scent that
>>person has.
>
>Point blank prove it you know what dont even waste your time
>because you cant. When you start bringing on all the
>spiritual
>BS the conversation starts to get illogical.

So you think spirituality is illogical? I can only guess that your faith/beliefs have nothing to do with the spirit, huh?
As for the scent piece, two sweaty bodies that intertwine on a regular are bound to mix scents, one scent(usually male) may even dominate the other.

>As far as the so called elders go they was doing alot of
>humping around in there day. You know how many old heads got
>kids they dont even account for.

Well that really aint no thing of the past considering we have just as many if not more new heads out here with shorties they don't even account for.

> And truth is we do pick up some of the
>>characteristics of the people we are intimate with and its
>>usually one of the reasons why folks tend to always end up
>>in relationships with a certain character of person.
>
>Again that is a crazy statment I dont take on any
>charateristics of people I sleep with in my past.

Folks around you may disagree. Don't know how many times a male or female friend would take on a new personality (not talking Sybil) when it came to the person they were dating. This aint to say they didn't have there own personality but they would take on a quality from the person they were dating and it was most heard in conversation such as saying something that I was more familiar with hearing their better half say or making certain gestures that was more common to their b.h. They didn't realize it either til someone said something.

>Its a
>>case of like attracts like.
>>Now just think, if a person that claims to be uplifting a
>>community is sleeping around with numerous people, their
>>minds can't possibly be concerned with the positive because
>>they are too busy uplifting asses and sooner or later it
>>will defeat their community work.
>
>Stop one has NOTHING to do with the other

One has EVERYTHING to do with the other. You can't concentrate of being a leader when your spending time chasing ass, it won't work.

>>Just look at Jesse Jackson and the P.U.S.H coilition. I
>>can't say how long he has been humpin around, but just think
>>of how much further P.U.S.H might have grown had his mind
>>been concentrated on 'family' and his community work, and
>>look at how much he's infedilities has cost (time, money &
>>respect)P.U.S.H as well as Jesse himself.
>
>Please give another example besides Jesse Jackson. Jesse is
>a fraud whether he is humping around or not. As far as what
>his extra maritital affairs have cost its because people are
>nosy.

Name a leader who isn't a fraud? Jesses humpin just made him look more the fool and aided in wasting time that could have been used for more productive things.

>Thats between him and his wife and last I checked she is
>still with him so its no biggie in my book. Also this whole
>thing about extra marital affairs is an american thing.

How is it an American thing when damn near half of the world practices a religion(s) that supports and upholds monogamy?
And as for Jesse's wife, just cause she with him don't mean things are a'ok between them. I wouldn't be surprised if she had him by the balls on some legal issues that makes him her slave, but allowed them to show good face in public.

>Other countries in the world laugh at our sexual
>restrictions.
So devoting your love and body to one person is a restriction? Does this apply to both men and women?

We are so caught up in being moral and high
>and mighty we forget to be human.
This aint got nothing to do with being high and mighty, it has to do with respecting and devoting yourself to the people you love and care about, which includes the person you intimately share your body with. And just how is a promiscous life a show of being human?

Besides George Bush stays
>quoting the bible and all that BS and he still tryna kill
>innocent kids in Iraq. But hey hes faithful to his wife so
>he must be a stand up guy.

Are you kidding, dudes a crackhead, do you really think he was being faithful while snorting up that shit? His punk ass just hasn't been exposed and considering his hold on the media, he will never be. However, unlike the dude I was talking about at the set, Bush has the sense not to publicize his bedroom behavior while dogging other for theirs.