>The problem with most of these guys it that they are not
>trying to overcome treating women a certain way, yet they
>want to appear positive to the community. I mean how on
>earth can you claim to be uplifting your people
>(men/women/children) when you treat the very person you
>share your body with like a dog?

What the hell are you talking about here. So if someone cheats or even has more than one woman he is treating the other persons body like a dog? Thats a ridiculous statement you need reall think about what you just typed.


No you may not be beating
>on them and perhaps you haven't contracted an STD, AIDS/HIV
>yet, but a promiscuious life style is not a healthy one
>regardless of the contraceptive and the most hurtful
>relationships between men and women are not due to physical
>abuse but cheating and losing trust and respect for that
>person.

How is being promiscuious unhealthy if one chooses to do so.
I have friends who are sexualy active with nore than one woman
there in better shape than im in. Also your speculating on the abuse vs cheating aspect of relationships. Besides I think beating a woman because you had a bad day at work far out ways
getting some ass on the low.But you must be one of those women who think if your man doesnt beat you he doesnt love you huh?



>
>In talking with elders, I've been told that when people lay
>with others they pick up of whatever spirit & scent that
>person has.

Point blank prove it you know what dont even waste your time because you cant. When you start bringing on all the spiritual
BS the conversation starts to get illogical.
As far as the so called elders go they was doing alot of humping around in there day. You know how many old heads got kids they dont even account for.

And truth is we do pick up some of the
>characteristics of the people we are intimate with and its
>usually one of the reasons why folks tend to always end up
>in relationships with a certain character of person.

Again that is a crazy statment I dont take on any charateristics of people I sleep with in my past.

Its a
>case of like attracts like.
>Now just think, if a person that claims to be uplifting a
>community is sleeping around with numerous people, their
>minds can't possibly be concerned with the positive because
>they are too busy uplifting asses and sooner or later it
>will defeat their community work.

Stop one has NOTHING to do with the other

>Just look at Jesse Jackson and the P.U.S.H coilition. I
>can't say how long he has been humpin around, but just think
>of how much further P.U.S.H might have grown had his mind
>been concentrated on 'family' and his community work, and
>look at how much he's infedilities has cost (time, money &
>respect)P.U.S.H as well as Jesse himself.

Please give another example besides Jesse Jackson. Jesse is a fraud whether he is humping around or not. As far as what his extra maritital affairs have cost its because people are nosy.
Thats between him and his wife and last I checked she is still with him so its no biggie in my book. Also this whole thing about extra marital affairs is an american thing. Other countries in the world laugh at our sexual restrictions. We are so caught up in being moral and high and mighty we forget to be human. Besides George Bush stays quoting the bible and all that BS and he still tryna kill innocent kids in Iraq. But hey hes faithful to his wife so he must be a stand up guy.