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>Again..this is very contradictive....how are you going to
>bring a family together when you can't maintain the family
>structure at home. I mean..thats what you are doing when
>speak in terms of community. "our community= family"

Well who said anything about having a family. What sbout someone whos single you cant hold them to the same standards.
On top of that why are people so caught up in who sleeps with who. If someone cheats its sex and people place different values on sex. Just because your belief system is one way doesnt mean its the same for the next man. Yes community euals family but somethings are between a man and wooman. It not anyones business whos sleeps with whom except the adults involved.

>Yes..people make mistakes but that shouldn't be an excuse
>for you to do wrong...what would tell your wife when you
>cheat on her..."sorry honey...you should have expected
>this..I'm weak..I'm a man." Please....
>I would be a different story if the man was married with
>more than one wife. (Islamically)

Look at you tryna bring religion to justify more than one woman. Well guess what I dont believe in religion so that dont mean anything to me. But if I wanna have more than one woman so be it. Its not anyones business but mine. As long as im not fathering a bunch of kids and not taking care of them.