are you saying that we have it "easier"

or just that we pose less of a threat, or both.

i just don't think that we do, even if we are less threatening than the black man. and i think that undermines our successes and just how hard we have it. even if i were to agree on the threat part, we still have to deal with sexism from white and black men. so it should not even be about "easier" to me, that -to me- takes it back to the whole competition thing, on some whole : who is the more victimized? who is less or more threatening? etc.