just wanted to add this part:

"If you choose to address ignorance, or someone's lack of respect for our space by posting after having been asked NOT to, please inbox them. You can duke it out w/ them off-line. All they want is attention anyway. Some people can't STAND to see others try to rise w/o begging for their input in the process. Please, let us not get caught up in that.

Thanks."

Because I see that some of us will not be able to resist the urge to respond, despite my request. This is a perfect example of what I meant in the Malcolm's Thread about Sistahs not knowing how to just BE SILENT, to make their point.