I've TRIED demanding. It doesn't wrk. It's viewed as problematic, or "antagonistic", as the best part stated. Asking is viewed as "weak", and is consequently, pretty much ignored/flat out denied. I think I might pull a "Johnnie Cochran" next, and try negotiating....

>>Sistas have to DEMAND, whatever it is they want,
>and never stop till they achieve it.
>However, don't expect a Brotha to know what and when it is
>that is needed. We get confused easily anyway.
>
>LOL!!!