31662, My points EXACTLY. Posted by ya Setshego, Tue Oct-25-05 03:25 PM
>>i guess my thing is this: if he can bring in other "wives", >then i ought to be able to have other "hubands". see how many >men go for that. > >bottom line: in a situation/culture where i am not dependent >on a man for my material well-being, what's the purpose?
>aside from all of that, i've never met a man in this day & age >(personally) who didn't see polygamy simply as an opportunity >to simply have as many babies as he wants by as many women as >he wants.
>>on an emotional/financial level in this >country, i can't see it working. for many reasons.
> >>Men generally do not have a >>problem "spreading love" and will always do so, > >neither do a lot of women.
>> unless it goes both ways....
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