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3013, the "i need advise" post...
Posted by BarTek, Wed Nov-12-03 06:09 AM
i have always been interested in developing mental, physical, and sexual health. i was wondering, if any of you, live by any standards, or personal rules, which allow you to become a healthier person. here are some of mine:

-if you want to go to university, think about the universe.
-if you want to understand your conditioning, think about your current condition. (mental, physical, sexual)
-be happy, by having those around you, react to you in a happy way

okay, peace!
3014, RE: the "i need advise" post...
Posted by BarTek, Wed Nov-12-03 12:20 PM
noone is interested in health? i hope i didn't sound like i was attempting to preach. i am actually trying to learn to better myself.

peace.
3015, If u want 2 go 2 university, think about the universe?
Posted by Intelligently95, Wed Nov-12-03 01:33 PM
Lmao!


3016, RE: If u want 2 go 2 university, think about the univer
Posted by BarTek, Wed Nov-12-03 01:35 PM
hehe, i guess it can be funny too. but i find truth in it.hehe
3017, what's the truth in that, please elaborate?
Posted by Intelligently95, Wed Nov-12-03 01:42 PM


3018, RE: what's the truth in that, please elaborate?
Posted by BarTek, Wed Nov-12-03 01:45 PM
well, why was the 'university' established? and by who?

peace.
3019, well that was pretty elaborate, thankx
Posted by Intelligently95, Wed Nov-12-03 01:48 PM


3020, RE: well that was pretty elaborate, thankx
Posted by BarTek, Thu Nov-13-03 10:14 AM
i will let you figure out who developed the concept of the "university" and why. perhaps, then you will understand my wit ;)
3021, I got some advice...
Posted by constant, Wed Nov-12-03 02:31 PM
-Always believe in your own beauty
-Keep ya head up. Especially when walking. I hate people that never have there head up while i walk by.
-Yeh keep smiling but not too much. Sometimes you gotta have someone ask you what's wrong. Makes you feel like someone cares
-When you find that one, that special someone. Don't blow it.
-Love is just accepting the other person for who he/she is. Then you just gotta stick through it.
-Till death do us part means death due us part. Ain't no such thing as divorce.

My peace has been said. May the world forever change from the words I speak
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Stay fresh
"I don't ask for much just enough room to spread these wings and the world fenna know my name" ~Black Thought of The Roots
3022, RE: I got some advice...
Posted by BarTek, Thu Nov-13-03 10:02 AM
>-Always believe in your own beauty

Wisdom.

>-Keep ya head up. Especially when walking. I hate people
>that never have there head up while i walk by.

haha, i thought i was the onle one. i always look dead in ppls eyes to see if they flinch. i respect ppl that make me flinch tho.

>-Yeh keep smiling but not too much. Sometimes you gotta have
>someone ask you what's wrong. Makes you feel like someone
>cares

no doubt!

>-When you find that one, that special someone. Don't blow
>it.

these were beautiful words. cause that is real truth.

>-Love is just accepting the other person for who he/she is.

okay, on a roll.

>Then you just gotta stick through it.

through the good, but mostly the bad. where the real love starts to show.

>-Till death do us part means death due us part. Ain't no
>such thing as divorce.
>

well. this is the only point i disagree wit. if ppl are unhappy, might as well part ya feel?


>My peace has been said. May the world forever change from
>the words I speak

anything is possible. peace!
3023, RE: the "i need advise" post...
Posted by dreamlife, Thu Nov-13-03 09:52 AM
Personally I feel you b/c I struggle with the understanding of this each day. For one eating right and giving your body proper rest is a good foundation. Then the rest is knowing yourself and what makes you tick, and then learning what makes you tock as well. Stress is one sure thing that will do it to you..holla back.

Good post though.
3024, RE: the "i need advise" post...
Posted by BarTek, Thu Nov-13-03 10:08 AM
Eating right and working out does wonders for sexual health. (Endurance, stamina...I'm talking hours at a time here, ain't no 20 min thang)...I feel the health point. Rest, is what I am only beginning to understand now. I would push my body to extreme limits and sleep for 4 hours a night, on top of smoking reefah and working 10+ hours a day. Needless to say, I suffered. I have come to understand the wisdom in rest and silence.

Revelation:
Then the rest is knowing yourself and what makes you tick, and then learning what makes you tock as well.

Yes, my point of greatest interest. I love to think about what makes up the fabric of my thinking. I believe I can see into my sub conscious mind. It was provoked by mental trauma. Anyways, the adventure has been a beautiful one, cause I see myslef in a different light, or rather, a refraction of what I used to be. I believe anything is possible now, good or bad, and I take that into account each day. It has helped me remain happy for very long periods of time. Not just perceived as happy, but to the level where I can be alone all day and not stop smiling. Great reply. Let's build.

peace.
3025, sorry dude . . .
Posted by carterboy, Thu Nov-13-03 10:33 AM
i had some advice for you, but then i read constant's post, an' remembered how depressed i was right now.

and now i can't remember whut i was gonna say. thanks for that.

oh, and sometimes, folks just be in they own world when they walk. i personally am prone to walk with my earphones on, an' i don't really need anythin' to focus my vision on, other than to not run into things, and see where i'm goin'. tho, if you stare me in the eyes, i wont flinch. (whut bothers me is, when your walkin' down the street, an' you see somebody from a distance. the two of you stare at each other for the whole time, until you get close to each other, then they look away like ya'll hadn't just been starin'. why do folks do that?)

the signiture starts now:

Buy the ILLIANCE album: "Under The Bridge." based in detroit, we're jus' tryin' to get our name out. Try the site: www.illiancerecords.com
it has mp3 downloads and feel free to file share them.

I assure you, we're better than the top ten artist out today . . . not that that's really hard to be, but styll, ya'll get the idea. try an' support our up an' comin' artist. peace.

outro.
3026, RE: sorry dude . . .
Posted by BarTek, Thu Nov-13-03 10:39 AM
what is it that ails you?

"i personally am prone to walk with my earphones on"

this was me last year before i met my girl. ahh, that could be it. i would wake up with my headphones on, sometimes, take em into the bathroom. go to school, in school, lunch time, alone, with headphones. after school. at home. sleep. same cycle next day. helped me avoid distraction. but yo....lets build somethin.
3027, wow part two
Posted by carterboy, Thu Nov-13-03 10:51 AM
i just don't feel comfortable puttin' my self out there like that, but i emailed you, an' if you really tryin' to help me out, email me back, an' i'll tell you my problem-riddled story.

the signiture starts now:

Buy the ILLIANCE album: "Under The Bridge." based in detroit, we're jus' tryin' to get our name out. Try the site: www.illiancerecords.com
it has mp3 downloads and feel free to file share them.

I assure you, we're better than the top ten artist out today . . . not that that's really hard to be, but styll, ya'll get the idea. try an' support our up an' comin' artist. peace.

outro.
3028, RE: wow part two
Posted by BarTek, Thu Nov-13-03 10:57 AM
inbox me. i didn't put my correct email on the profile. peace.
3029, believe in it or not
Posted by tohunga, Thu Nov-13-03 10:51 AM
karma works..
3030, cosign
Posted by carterboy, Thu Nov-13-03 10:52 AM
the signiture starts now:

Buy the ILLIANCE album: "Under The Bridge." based in detroit, we're jus' tryin' to get our name out. Try the site: www.illiancerecords.com
it has mp3 downloads and feel free to file share them.

I assure you, we're better than the top ten artist out today . . . not that that's really hard to be, but styll, ya'll get the idea. try an' support our up an' comin' artist. peace.

outro.
3031, RE: believe in it or not
Posted by BarTek, Thu Nov-13-03 10:56 AM
karma is a force, just like love. positive, and negative. karma, is not immune to failure, or incorrect use. you have to be wise with it, i have used karma, both correctly and incorrectly. in my opinion, it's a tool.
3032, RE: believe in it or not
Posted by Mslibrar, Thu Nov-13-03 11:10 AM
this sounds cliche' im sure but just treat people the way you would like to be treated...and honestly im starting to think that being really cautious about who you have sex with is good a good idea too...cuz im startin to believe you can pass on negativity and positivity through that type of encounter...and you start thinking you like folks when you really would be discussted by them any other time...
3033, RE: believe in it or not
Posted by BarTek, Thu Nov-13-03 11:12 AM
interesting. a friend of mine is able to see aura's. and, she told me, that when people argue, or are in some kind of conflict..(which could be sex)....the energy of 1 person tries to take over the energy of the other. i think, it all has to do with, submition, or dominance. peace.
3034, exaclty
Posted by carterboy, Thu Nov-13-03 11:15 AM
i agree with that whole heartedly. think about it. when you have an arguemeant, you want to impose you will onto the person. when you have sex, you either want them to submit, or you are willing to give your all to them. makes sense to me.

i wish i could see auras

the signiture starts now:

Buy the ILLIANCE album: "Under The Bridge." based in detroit, we're jus' tryin' to get our name out. Try the site: www.illiancerecords.com
it has mp3 downloads and feel free to file share them.

I assure you, we're better than the top ten artist out today . . . not that that's really hard to be, but styll, ya'll get the idea. try an' support our up an' comin' artist. peace.

outro.
3035, RE: exaclty
Posted by BarTek, Thu Nov-13-03 11:18 AM
stare off center. unfocus. and don't think.

have fun.

edit: don't want to sound totally insane. lol not yet anyways.

peace.
3036, i know your serious, but
Posted by carterboy, Thu Nov-13-03 11:26 AM
this reminds me of some instructions i red in the ninth grade about how to form the "ka meha meha" wave (an attack from dragon ball z, a japanimation cartoon). i will actually try it tho. but i couldn't help but make that connection.

the signiture starts now:

Buy the ILLIANCE album: "Under The Bridge." based in detroit, we're jus' tryin' to get our name out. Try the site: www.illiancerecords.com
it has mp3 downloads and feel free to file share them.

I assure you, we're better than the top ten artist out today . . . not that that's really hard to be, but styll, ya'll get the idea. try an' support our up an' comin' artist. peace.

outro.
3037, RE: i know your serious, but
Posted by BarTek, Thu Nov-13-03 11:26 AM
some people i know would say....

there is a hint of truth in everything.

peace.
3038, yes . . .
Posted by carterboy, Thu Nov-13-03 11:28 AM
i am one of them

the signiture starts now:

Buy the ILLIANCE album: "Under The Bridge." based in detroit, we're jus' tryin' to get our name out. Try the site: www.illiancerecords.com
it has mp3 downloads and feel free to file share them.

I assure you, we're better than the top ten artist out today . . . not that that's really hard to be, but styll, ya'll get the idea. try an' support our up an' comin' artist. peace.

outro.
3039, here's some of mine..
Posted by LK1, Fri Nov-14-03 05:37 AM
-Work out two hours a day and eat healthy foods.
-Do what you enjoy to do with your occupation in life.
-If you have money, and someone obviously needs more money than you, give that someone your money (homeless, charities, children's funds, etc...)
-Read a ton of literature from a ton of different sources.
-Find a good, strong (fine) woman who goes beyond the surface with her discussions and practices philanthropy.
-Speak out against injustices, whether it be worldwide or a dude getting picked on to support someone's ego.
-Don't watch American television. Don't support American newspapers.
-Find God through prayer and research the world's religions. I've found my life's answers in Judeo-Christianity.

peace,