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MY COMMENT FOR THE SWIPE:::

THIS IS A GREAT song. get the song from Samantha Mumba, and listen to it with her.
Work with the Anger first, until you're comfy and then tell her you don't support her (insert words about the Sleeping Beauty myth here)

and then be there for yourself while you play it . Tell her (when appropriate) that you played it "FOR HER", in that sensing.

Pretend you're a DJ. If you can't pretend yu're a DJ, PRETEND that you can PRETEND that you're a DJ.

Get her to pretend (cause you can pretend) that she doesn't need outside validation as a source of Self-Esteem. Tell her that LOVE that you earn from yourself i similar to MONEYthat you earn for yourself. She can't get self-esteem form you, because you're not HER.

Be the "Fathering" energy, in that sensing.

Resist your ego's demand for perfection. Get out of your head, don't think, and if she tells you that she's having problems with what you're saying, tell her to enjoy herself, she can judge it ALL DAY TOMORROW, in that sensing.

Here are the lyrics.... ("It's time to play the lyrics" ... "BUM RUSH THE SOUND!!!!"
THIS IS A GREAT SONG!!!!/RESONANCE/"VIBRTION"...

SAMANTHA MUMBA LYRICS

"Don't Need You To Tell Me I'm Pretty"


I don't need you to
Tell me i'm pretty to make me feel beautiful
I don't need you to
Give me your strength to make me feel i'm strong
I got all of this strength that I need here
inside my own two hands
All that I want is your love and respect for who I am
What I really need
Comes from deep inside of me


Don't need you to tell me i'm pretty to make me feel beautiful
Don't need you to make me strong cuz i'm strong all on my own
Doesn't come from outside
This beauty I know
Comes from inside my soul

Don't need you to tell me I'm pretty


I don't need you to
Believe in me to make me know im worth believing in
I don't need you to
Lift me up high to know I can stand tall ( I can stand tall)


I can stand my own ground
I can stand proud upon my own two feet
Don't have to be part of somebody else
To be complete
What I really need
Comes from deep inside of me




Don't need to come to you for...confirmation
Because I finally found too...this revelation
What I really need ( what I really need)
Im gonna find inside of me (find inside of me)
Not in somebody else
Respect...comes when you respect yourself




Don't need you to tell me i'm pretty to make me feel beautiful
Don't need you to lift me up, i can stand up on my own
Doesn't come from outside
This beauty I know (I know)
Comes from inside my soul

Don't need you to tell me i'm pretty to know i'm beautiful




http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/samanthamumba/dontneedyoutotellmeimpretty.html



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Chris Defendorf: "We're not done!" (sampling KRS-ONE & PUBLIC ENEMY "HIT THE ROAD JACKKK"

Chuck D: "I KNOW we're not done..."

PE REDUCER Hank Shocklee on the words defendorf uses: "inciteful" (C) HS