is how you refuse to acknowledge that womens hands are dirty AT ALL in the whole "baby momma" culture that we (black folks) live in.

to this day, on the whole issue of "baby momma's", I have NEVER heard a female say that baby mommas are just as promiscuous, trifling, reckless, and irresponsible as the men are that helped them make the baby. you're not doing anything but pushing the same old "women are the helpless victims who were duped" tired bullshit.